tiup升级3.0.8到4.0.6 node_exporter stop失败

tiup升级过程中pd/tidb/tikv都完成了正常的升级和重启了, tiup cluster display显示也正常:

10.9.137.108:9093 alertmanager 10.9.137.108 9093/9094 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data.alertmana
ger /home/tidb/deploy
10.9.48.230:8249 drainer 10.9.48.230 8249 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data.drainer
/home/tidb/deploy
10.9.137.108:12379 pd 10.9.137.108 12379/12380 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data.pd
/home/tidb/deploy
10.9.14.188:12379 pd 10.9.14.188 12379/12380 linux/x86_64 Up|UI /home/tidb/deploy/data.pd
/home/tidb/deploy
10.9.175.106:12379 pd 10.9.175.106 12379/12380 linux/x86_64 Up|L /home/tidb/deploy/data.pd
/home/tidb/deploy
10.19.100.221:9090 prometheus 10.19.100.221 9090 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/prometheus2.0.
0.data.metrics /home/tidb/deploy
10.9.48.230:8250 pump 10.9.48.230 8250 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data.pump
/home/tidb/deploy
10.9.130.145:4000 tidb 10.9.130.145 4000/10080 linux/x86_64 Up -
/home/tidb/deploy
10.9.16.130:4000 tidb 10.9.16.130 4000/10080 linux/x86_64 Up -
/home/tidb/deploy
10.9.99.96:4000 tidb 10.9.99.96 4000/10080 linux/x86_64 Up - /home/tidb/deploy
10.9.130.145:20160 tikv 10.9.130.145 20160/20180 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data /home/tidb/deploy
10.9.16.130:20160 tikv 10.9.16.130 20160/20180 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data /home/tidb/deploy
10.9.99.96:20160 tikv 10.9.99.96 20160/20180 linux/x86_64 Up /home/tidb/deploy/data /home/tidb/deploy